Love is a flaw

If you look at every naked human closely. You will find the flaws, the shapes that are distorted here and there, a little or too much compared to a Victoria’s secret model or a playboy magazine hunk. However, that flaw or distortion is the exact thing that you fall in love with. That is how only your beloved can look like. This becomes the void when love fails. When a relationship fails, we tend to look for a better relation, a better person, better everything. At times nothing is satisfaction, because deep down what we want is the exact flaw that we fell in love with. The urge to see only that distortion of the soul, it is when ego takes over our own brain, to not accept anything new. Which is where future looks doubtful and scary. Self-confidence is crushed by doubts of not being able to love someone again. It is not a bad thing, it is a lesson that we learn as we grow.

Embrace the fact that we know how to love someone with a flaw. No one is devoid of it. Loving defects and weaknesses of another person is true love, no materialism. In this century eternal love is superficial, 2 out of 10 lovers get to live and die with each other. I would say ratio may be even lesser. Love fails, partners change. Give the mind enough time to forget, feel wholesome again. There are times when nothing feels right or good, and in those times if the lost love is not something that is bothering the mind, you have moved on. You have now healed. Giving time to self is the most important thing. So that next when we fall in love, we are ready to love a fresh new flaw.